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Conflict
Resolution

Stop Fighting Against Each Other

You’re not losing your marriage to a lack of love —
you’re losing it to conflict
you were never taught to resolve.

Every couple fights. But not every couple knows how to fight right.
Nine modules. Biblical truth. Proven strategy. That ends today.

The Marriage Conflict Guide — Lloyd D. Allen

Stop fighting against each other. Start fighting for your marriage.

$97

9 Modules  ·  Full Course Access  ·  Instant Enrollment

YES — I’M READY TO FIGHT FOR MY MARRIAGE

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The Real Damage

It’s not the fight
that destroys marriages.
It’s how you fight.

Couple in conflict — the distance that builds when conflict goes unresolved

The argument that started over dishes was never about dishes. The fight that erupted over money was never about money. The silence that followed both — that was where the real damage happened.

Unresolved conflict poisons slowly. It calcifies into resentment, creates emotional distance, shuts down intimacy, and convinces two people who genuinely love each other that they are simply incompatible.

They are not incompatible. They were never taught to fight right.

“Stop fighting against each other. Start fighting for your marriage. There is a profound difference — and this course teaches you how to cross that line.”

— Lloyd Allen | MrMarriage.com
The Brutal Truth

Conflict is inevitable.
Destructive conflict is not.

PRIDE.  CONTEMPT.  SILENCE.

Proverbs 13:10 is stark: “Through pride comes nothing but strife.” The primary cause of marital conflict is not money, not sex, not in-laws. It is pride — the refusal to go first, own your part, or hear another perspective before defending your own.

Gottman’s research is equally stark: contempt alone predicts divorce with greater accuracy than any other variable. Criticism. Stonewalling. Defensiveness. They are not just bad habits — they are marriage killers.

Conflict is inevitable in every marriage. Destructive conflict is not. This course teaches you the difference — and how to cross it.

The Solution

Turn your worst arguments
into your greatest breakthroughs.

Conflict Resolution — Marriage Breakthrough

The Conflict Resolution Course is a 9-module system packed with powerful tools and worksheets that walk you step-by-step through resolving real conflicts in your real marriage.

You will learn proven strategies that de-escalate tension, break destructive cycles, stop conflict from slowly poisoning your relationship — and turn arguments into the kind of breakthroughs that actually bring you closer together.

Built on 30 years of therapeutic experience and anchored in Scripture. Every module is a real skill. Every skill is immediately usable. Starting with the very next disagreement you face.

Course Content

9 Modules.
9 weapons for your marriage.

01

Make the First Move

Conflicts never resolve themselves. Someone must go first. This module teaches the courage of peacemaking — the willingness to walk toward the fire instead of away from it. Matthew 5:23–24. Reconciliation is more important than being right.

02

Take Responsibility for Your Part

The first question in any conflict is not “What did they do?” It is “What is my fault?” Pride is the primary cause of conflict. Ninety-five percent of conflicts can be resolved when both people possess genuine humility.

03

Listen Before You Speak

You cannot resolve what you do not understand. The real meaning in any argument lives in the emotion behind the words — the fear, the hurt, the unmet need. The key is the willingness to receive their story first.

04

Speak the Truth in Love

You are never persuasive when you are abrasive. Truth without love is resisted. Truth with love is received. Attack the problem — never the person. The goal is not to score points. It is to reach the person sitting across from you.

05

Apology & Forgiveness

A genuine apology has five components — and missing any one means it was incomplete. Forgiveness is not a feeling. It is a covenant decision. This module teaches both sides of the same coin that heals every ruptured relationship.

06

Take a Solution-Focused Approach

Stop relitigating the past. Start building the future. A solution-focused approach shifts the conversation from who was wrong to what comes next — and that shift alone transforms how conflict ends in your marriage.

07

Never Shame — Always Honor

Shame is a weapon. Honor is a covenant commitment. This module draws the line between the two and teaches couples to resolve conflict without using the most destructive force in marital communication — contempt.

08

Pray Together About It

The couple that prays together about their conflict invites a third presence into the room — and that presence changes everything. The most underused conflict resolution tool in Christian marriage. Scripturally, therapeutically, practically essential.

09

Build a Conflict Culture

The final module moves from individual skills to a shared culture — the agreements, rules, and tone your household establishes so that when conflict comes, it consistently builds instead of destroys.

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Complete Course Roadmap

Everything
included.

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Pre-Course Assessment
Establish your conflict baseline before the course changes how you fight.
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1
Make the First Move
The courage to walk toward the fire — Matthew 5:23–24.
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2
Take Responsibility for Your Part
Humility is the most powerful tool in the room.
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3
Listen Before You Speak
Hear the emotion. Seek to understand before being understood.
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4
Speak the Truth in Love
Attack the problem, not the person. Ephesians 4:29.
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5
Apology & Forgiveness
Five components of a genuine apology. Forgiveness as covenant decision.
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6
Take a Solution-Focused Approach
Stop relitigating. Start building what comes next.
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7
Never Shame — Always Honor
Contempt is the single strongest predictor of divorce. Eliminate it here.
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8
Pray Together About It
The most underused conflict resolution tool in marriage.
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9
Build a Conflict Culture
Shared agreements that make conflict build instead of destroy.
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Post-Course Assessment
Measure exactly how far your conflict resolution has transformed.
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A–Z Conflict Resolution Guide (26 Techniques)
A complete reference of proven conflict tools to reach for in any situation.
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Conflict Resolution E-Book + 9 Worksheets
One per module — move from awareness to action together.
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The Difference This Course Makes

Without this course.
With it.

Without the course
  • Continuing the same argument patterns — and watching the distance between you grow
  • Apologizing without knowing what you actually broke — so the apology never lands
  • Raising your voice thinking volume creates clarity — and losing them every time
  • Accumulating unresolved conflicts that eventually make one big argument feel like all of them
  • Staying in the same destructive cycle — hoping it will somehow change on its own
With the course
  • Understanding the real issue beneath every surface argument — and addressing that instead
  • Making the first move with the courage of a peacemaker — not the pride of a point-scorer
  • Delivering apologies that actually land — because you now know all five components
  • Using conflict as a tool for growth — turning your worst arguments into actual breakthroughs
  • Building a shared conflict culture that makes healthy resolution the default, not the exception
YES — I WANT TO RESOLVE CONFLICT RIGHT

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What You’re Getting

The complete
value stack.

The A–Z Conflict Resolution Guide for Married Couples — Lloyd D. Allen

Included free — The A–Z Conflict Resolution Guide (26 Techniques)

🎓
9-Module Conflict Resolution Course

Full video teaching + written content for every module

$197
📚
A–Z Guide — 26 Conflict Resolution Techniques

A complete tool reference for every conflict situation you will ever face

$67
📋
Pre & Post-Course Assessments

Measure exactly where you start and how far you’ve come

$47
🔧
9 Practical Worksheets

One per module — real tools for real conflicts in your real marriage

$97
📙
Conflict Resolution E-Book

Complete written companion to the full 9-module course

$37
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Biological, Psychological & Theological Framework

Gottman Method, neuroscience, and Scripture — all three in every module

$97
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Lifetime Access — Return Any Time

Revisit any module after any conflict — this is a permanent resource

$67
Total Real-World Value
$609
Your Investment Today
$97
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Meet the Author
Lloyd Allen — Marriage Educator, Therapist, Family Coach and Theologian
Lloyd Allen
Marriage Educator · Therapist · Family Coach · Theologian

Lloyd Allen is a Marriage Educator, Therapist, and Coach — Theologian, Author, and Speaker, and the Founder and CEO of Fixing Marriage Academy, Inc. Trained as a Marriage and Family Therapist at Barry University, with honors, Lloyd brings 30 years of experience helping couples around the world repair, restore, and rebuild their marriages.

Happily married and the father of two, Lloyd’s greatest passion is equipping couples with the tools they were never given — including the ability to turn their worst conflicts into their greatest breakthroughs.

What People Say

Real couples.
Real transformation.

★★★★★

“We had already filed for divorce, but then we met Lloyd Allen, who made all the difference in our lives. After about 4 weeks, a miracle happened. For the first time, I felt the joy and beauty of a healthy marriage. The children kept asking, ‘What happened to daddy?’ I kept saying to Lloyd Allen: Thank you, Thank you, Thank you.”

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★★★★★

“Working with Lloyd Allen has been a game-changer for our marriage. What I appreciate most is how he integrates faith into his guidance, helping us not just understand our issues but grow closer to God and each other. We’ve emerged feeling more connected and equipped to handle challenges together. It’s been a blessing!”

A & A
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★★★★★

“He provided Pr. Lloyd Allen — a man of wisdom and integrity. He gave us sound and biblical counsel. After years of our marriage being in trouble, we asked God to provide a Godly counselor, and that He did. We can’t express how happy and blessed we are. Pr. Allen, thank you for restoring our marriage!”

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100% Satisfaction Guarantee

Go through the course. Work through every module. Use the worksheets and the A–Z guide in real conflicts with your spouse. If you do not feel it was completely worth your investment, contact us within 7 days and we will refund every dollar — no questions asked, no conditions, no hoops. That is how confident we are in what this course will do for your marriage.

One-Time Investment
$97

Stop fighting against each other.
Start fighting for your marriage.

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